Archaeology

Mum © John MacPherson

It’s funny how in retrospect disparate events can coalesce to reveal an obvious truth. One which at the time just sauntered by unnoticed.

Such as the bags my mum would give me with ‘stuff’ in them. There had been lots and lots and lots of bags over the years.

She’d worked as a volunteer for a couple of mornings in a charity shop right up until she was almost 80 years old. Often walking the 6 miles to town if the weather was nice.

She was fit.

The bags she’d given me had contained books or other items she’d come across in the charity shop, which she thought I might like so would purchase for me. Such as a 1980’s copy of one of Michael Freeman’s very very popular photography tuitional books.

There were many of those, every other month another copy would surface as a gift, in a bag.

Copies of the very same book.

And hats.

Wooly hats.

One day there was a bag containing hand-knitted hats, suitable for a ten year old, which she thought my wee lad William (then aged eight months) could use.

Nine hats in total, in plain wool, red wool, green wool, gaily coloured wool, all sorts.

But what added the layers of intrigue to all of this was that each one of these gifts was wrapped in several plastic supermarket bags, each one wound tightly in sellotape, loop after loop after loop of sellotape. Then a bag. Then tape. Then a bag. And so on, until the gifts lost any of their original form and became strange almost-egyptian deities bound tightly for the afterlife.

As mum grew older, the layering became more and more obvious.

When I cleared her house, I opened several of these ‘mummies’ that emerged dust-covered from the last forgotten recesses of her cupboards, prepared then hidden. She had been taken to hospital with a broken hip, then diagnosed with dementia sufficiently disabling that it was judged unsafe for her to ever return home. She left on a stretcher and never returned.

The house-clearance felt like some archaeological investigation. Each ‘mummy’ discovered then opened, was to my surprise a little emotional journey for me, a tape-trail meander into a strange place that I realised I’d never fully understand: the mind of my mother.

Dementia, I now realise, is not always about forgetting.

Author — John Macpherson

John MacPherson was born and lives in the Scottish Highlands. He trained as a welder in the Glasgow shipyards, before completing an apprenticeship as a carpenter, and then qualified as a Social Worker in Disability Services. Along the way he has cooked on canal barges, trained as an Alpine Ski Leader & worked as an Instructor for Skiers with disabilities, been a canoe instructor, and tutor of night classes in carpentry, stained glass design and manufacture, and archery. He has travelled extensively on various continents, undertaking solo trips by bicycle, or motorcycle. He has had narrow escapes from an ambush by terrorists, been hit by lightning, caught in an erupting volcano, trapped in a mobile home by a tornado, kidnapped by a dog's hairdresser, rammed by a basking shark and was once bitten by a wild otter. He has combined all this with professional photography, which he has practised for over 35 years. He teaches photography and acts as a photography guide & tutor in the UK and abroad. His biggest challenge is keeping his 30 year old Land Rover 110 on the road. He loves telling and hearing stories.

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